6 Signs They're an emotional vampire—cut them off.

No matter how long you knew the person. Even a five-minute phone call leaves you emotionally tired.

Paying attention to how you feel while with someone is important, but sometimes the deeper truth is how you feel after.

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You physically tighten up when they text or call.

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You've noticed that whenever their name appears on your phone, you tense up and feel anxious.

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. They whine about everything but don't change.

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There is a distinct lack of mutuality in this connection.

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If you truly feel like you can't say anything to them about how you're feeling, you may find yourself talking about your relationship problems

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Your loved ones are worried about your involvement with this person.

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