Men Discuss Their Mixed Feelings About Women Making The First Move

For someone like me who suffers from extreme anxiety and low self-esteem, this is the most emotionally supportive and kind thing a potential spouse can do. 

“Yes, definitely. I should know she's moving, though. I can't read signs. I've never seen anyone flirt with me, but I've been told several times. 

Hints usually fail since every girl is different. One girl's clues are another's friendliness and another's disinterest. 

I support first-movers. All sexes. I wish they'd quit being so subtle because I can't pick up cues less evident than "Do you want to go on a date sometime?"

No problem. I'm bad at reading hints, but I admire your courage. 

I’m conflicted—it sounds nice, but it’s so uncommon that it’s suspicious, especially if it’s an attractive woman.

Who would object? What type of madman thinks this is a problem?

“Yes, definitely. I should know she's moving, though. I can't read signs. I've never seen anyone flirt with me, but I've been told several times. 

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